Life Insights

I want my partner to feel like I have asked a sufficient amount questions about their position so as to accurately represent it. This is my first goal in a discussion, and any disagreements would happen only after both parties are confident that the other has understood and can represent their position.

After 100 failures at a specific task, people often identify themselves as someone who fails at that task. This is a flaw of human nature because it's entirely possible that you succeed on attempt 101. You should not identify with failure at a task just because that has been the complete history you have with that task so far.